How Learning to be Innovative Can Transform Your Life

The Power of Innovation

Learning to be innovative can be one of the most powerful skills you can learn. When asked about creativity, or the ability to be innovative, unfortunately, a lot of people have a false belief that they simply lack this skill. “no sorry, hahaha,  that’s simply not me. I missed that gene.”

The truth is that the ability to be creative or innovative is a talent that is inherent in all of us. It is something we can all learn. Like learning a new language, it takes new knowledge and practice.

I’m sure we all know people who we think are creative or innovative.

We have all watched friends or family come up with amazing ideas that have blown us away, so to speak. Yet, at the same time, we have a judgement about ourselves, that we would never be capable of something really creative. It may be a work of art, a book, building something etc., We can marvel at other people, all the while labelling ourselves as being unskilled or lacking this creative ability.

Being Innovative Can Be Learned 

It’s a really powerful change in mindset to learn that anyone can learn to be creative and innovative. Like anything, it’s a learned skill. It’s another mountain of connections in your brain that simply was never developed. You need to understand that you can learn this skill. My friend-It just takes knowledge, time and practice.

Creativity is not a gene that skips generations or families. In actuality, everyone is born capable of being creative. Remember when you were a young child in your first days at school. The boxes of crayons in kindergarten were not limited only to those children who were deemed to possess extraordinary potential.

You want to know why? The truth is, everybody has potential.

Remember when

Remember when you were young and you wanted to learn to ride a bike. After all, your friends were doing it so why not you. Or you wanted to fit in.

Did you ever for second label yourself as not being capable or able to ride a bike?. Where do the same as all the kids in new that you also could learn the skill? Or did you say, oh no I can’t do that!

To continue the analogy, did you make mistakes when you learn to ride a bike? Did you fall off, or fall over or have trouble getting going? There are lots of mistakes you can make when learning to ride a bike? Did you keep going!

How about when you got older? Did you, like most people learn to drive a car? If you did, as you reflect back on the first time that you drove, did you just hop in the car and all of a sudden you were Enzo Ferrari? Ha, Not likely!

Both of the processes of learning to ride a bike or drive a car required some really basic steps:

  • The first requirement is passion and desire. To be passionate about what you want to create or do.
  • Next, you will need to up your knowledge level. If you want to learn something, there are likly lots of places you can find the information you seek, especially these days.
  • The next step requires taking action. But action by itself is not enough. You also have to be willing to make mistakes. You will come to find out that the so called mistakes will become your greatest teacher.
  • Most of all you will need to continue to practice your new skill. Eventually it will become second nature for you.

It takes time for your brain to take in the skill set and make it available to you unconsciously.

Tips and Tricks to Master the Innovation Skillset

Setting Goals

First, it’s important to get clear about what you want or what you want to create. I say this with a caveat that you also have to be flexible. What I learned myself is it’s important to have the goal but also to be flexible enough to realize that as you get going your goal can or will likely morph for the better. This will occur as a byproduct of incorporating new ideas that you learn along the way

Be Realistic

First being “realistic” is relative. It can vary greatly from person to person. What might be realistic for one person could be a walk in the park for someone else. It’s also easy to underestimate your own capabilities. Basically, don’t try flying a plane without training!

Understand that learning a new skill or mastering something new simply takes time and practice. Be easy on yourself. You can make a game out of the learning process. Understand that it’s not going to be like flipping a switch. Being creative or innovative takes time and practice.

I will give you a personal example.

A couple of months ago I had never written a blog post. To be really frank with you, my first post was awful, (haha, okay a few of them.) I didn’t understand anything about creating blog posts. In the first while, I made tons of mistakes and I just kind of babbled on. I also didn’t know anything about SEO, creating headings, how to break up paragraphs etc. etc. etc. 

Simply by starting the process, writing the first post AND keeping going, it got better and better and easier and easier over time.

Understand that even people who seem to be geniuses at creating things had to start somewhere and they also made lots of mistakes. You might see great results but remember that it is likely the result of 100 tries (or more).

Manage Your Time

Allocate time to learning this new skill.  Don’t expect amazing results overnight. Just like riding a bike, it’s going to take practice and repetition. To do this, you have to allocate the time you need to practice your new skillset. If you really want to master this skill set make sure you allocate the needed time to develop your inner capabilities.

Check out our post on ways to manage time Here

Focus on Your Own Counsel:         

This one is incredibly important and is especially critical at the beginning stages of your learning curve.

What I’m saying by this is that it is really important that you listen to yourself the most! You must really own what you creating! As a result, it’s important, especially when you start out, to make yourself your number one source for feedback. There are a million critics out there who have a better or different way of doing things. If its important, the natural learning curve is going to lead you to the information. Give yourself some slack and allow this to take its course.

Yes, some of the things others have to say are important and are likely some things that you will need to incorporate. Trust yourself and that you will get there. If you take on everything people say you can quickly get both discouraged and overwhelmed.

Don’t listen to what other people say, especially people who are really critical! Most people will not appreciate what you doing or the amount of effort that you are putting into what you’re creating. Some people will just be focused on critiquing your efforts. Again, this criticism can unintentionally stop you in your tracks. Know that the other person might mean well but they likely don’t understand that for someone creative, there so called “constructive feedback” that can undermine your determination.

Other People Aren’t in Your Shoes

Other people have no idea what you’re going through the efforts that you’re really putting in. If you have an original idea, don’t waste your time and effort trying to make people understand. They won’t. They are not you with your dreams and visions. And the help they try to give you will probably come in the form of negative feedback – don’t do this, you need to do this, that etc. . If all of the really amazing creators in our history listened to their peers, we would probably still be riding horses and using the telegraph.

When I started writing this blog I got all kinds of feedback and most of it wasn’t very positive. For the most part if focused on what I “should” be doing, or what I was doing wrong. Over time I found the comments negatively affected my motivation. To keep going, I had to listen less, learn what I needed and rely on myself more and more only. I also was benefiting greatly from learning from the so-called mistakes I was making as they were leading me to skills that I needed to learn.

Take Care of Your Health

If you really want to be successful, it’s really important you support yourself by making your health a priority. Take care, both of your body and your mind. Adopt a healthy diet and also get lots of exercises that are suited for your age and condition.

Plan your day and make sure there’s time for exercise. Personally, I walk between 7 & 10,000 steps every day and I also eat lots of healthy food like salads, fish, avocadoes etc. Exercise and diet help to send all those wonderful endorphins coursing through your veins. Exercising certainly clears and relaxes your mind and allows for anything to pop up. It will also help you to sleep better, something that is so important to creativity.

A Side Note: Silva Mind Control

I would like to share something that has really helped me. A little while ago I stumbled onto the Silva Mind Control program. I think it was meant to happen as ironically, the book had been sitting on my shelf for years and one day it just fell off and landed on my foot. It was as if something was trying to get my attention.

I would like to share that the more I looked into this program, the more I found that what they share is really powerful.

The Silva information is about teaching people to fully and properly use their brains. Silva discovered that people are actually way more creative when they are in a relaxed state of mind. Silva discovered that really successful people got some of their best ideas when they were in were in Alpha or Theta mind frequency states, a by-product of relaxation. This is in contrast to the state most people operate in – the Beta frequency 12 – 30 cycles per second) state that most people operate in.

One of their exercises focuses on the creativity that we are capable of when we sleep. The program teaches people to tell themselves prior to falling asleep that they want to remember their dreams. They instruct people to keep a pen and paper handy.

People write down their thoughts quickly when they wake no matter what time it is. It’s amazing what the mind can do. So try this and jot down those notes. Those dreams may just create an innovative spark in you.

You can find more information on Silva programs here

If you want to know more about brain states and frequencies GO HERE

Always Be Yourself!

It is really important that you follow who you are, not who you think other people want you to be. Don’t try to be anyone else and follow someone else’s dream. This is one of the big problems these days with all these gurus trying to sell you overpriced courses with lots of promises. For the most part, you’ll do way better if you find your own path and simply take lots of action. Instead of trying to copy somebody else, you need to find your own style.

You can always tell a Rembrandt from a Matisse. If you read a certain author over and over again you can start to recognize their own style. Same as with the people that excel in sports, – they develop their own way of doing things allows them to rise above the crowd.

People will appreciate your innovation more and more over time as they will appreciate your uniqueness. Who else has your exact style – Nobody! That will let people see how valuable you are and what you are providing.

You Don’t Need Expensive Props to Be Innovative

Don’t hide behind expensive toys, tools or crutches. You don’t need the most expensive computer or software to accomplish most tasks. You don’t need the best paper to write a book. You don’t need the most expensive paints to create a masterpiece. As a side note, J.K. Rowling wrote her first book of the Harry Potter Series on bits of tissue.

Likewise, you don’t need the best camera to take amazing pictures, Understand that this will come in time when you hone your skills. The real artist actually reduces the number of tools he has as he gets better at his craft: as they know through experience what actually works and what doesn’t.

Understand Your Passion And Follow It

Few people ever excelled without having a lot of passion for what they were doing. So, it’s time to think about what is it that drives you passionately:

  • What wakes you up in the mornings?
  • What keeps coming up in your mind?
  • What do you think about before you go to sleep?
  • What books, magazines, TV shows are you pulled to?
  • When you go online, what do you search for? What are the websites you go to over and over again and why?
  • What is the one thing that you’ll die if you don’t do?

Sometimes people, even with talent are overtaken by people who simply “want it more.” It’s like a human version of the “the tortoise and the hare? Sometimes you just want something so badly that you become virtually unstoppable. And that is a result of having passion. Passion will keep you going when others would stop.

Don’t Worry About Looking For Inspiration – It Will Find You.

You can’t force it and you won’t have to if you have passion. As a result,  inspiration will show when you least expect it to, but many times when you need it the most.  If you have passion and are working on something that drives you, know that inspiration is going to show up! It just may take a while as you may need to learn something to help you.

Yes, you may or are going to go through droughts where it seems like nothing is happening. It is during these times that the mind can play many tricks on you. I can even try to get you to stop what you are doing and tell you lots of stories to support this mindset.

Understand that this is all part of the process. Also know that an amazing idea could pop into your mind anywhere, at any time and you need to be prepared for this. It’s even more prevalent when you are in times of calmness.

As a side note, one of my greatest moments of motivation and creativity occurs when I am relaxed, lying in the bathtub. In times like this, I can really calm myself and especially my brain as it slides into Alpha. All of a sudden, an amazing and transformational idea pops into my head.

Make sure you are prepared for when inspiration strikes, no matter where you are always have a pen and paper within your arm’s reach at all times.

Closing Comments

I hope this article has helped you understand an important aspect of your true potential.

Know that you have an amazing ability to bring more innovation into your life. Always remember that while you will likely help lots of people over time, your innovative self has to come from your actions and be driven by you.

Soon enough, others will notice, and everything should snowball from there!

Be safe and well
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The Importance of Effective Time Management
As it is all around us!!

The Importance of Effective Time Management

As we all know, there are only 24 hours in a day.

These days with all of the distractions, especially those originating with our new online world, it is so easy to fill those hours quickly.

At the end of the day it is easy to look back and ask yourself questions like:

  • “How productive was I today?”
  • “What did I really accomplish today?
  • “If I set goals for today, did I finish what I set out to do?”
  • “What did I actually spend most my time on?”

Without an effective time management strategy, you likely won’t enjoy the answers to these questions.

Time Management Is Especially Needed in Today’s “Modern World!”

With all of the increasing distractions happening these days, it is so important to get on top of your use of time now more than ever. If you don’t learn to manage your time too often you will find yourself going to bed with your “to-do” list barely touched. Managing your time effectively can be one of the biggest factors that make a difference between success and failure!

Now more than ever it is so important to have a methodical daily, monthly and yearly plan for all areas of your life. Thoroughly planning and having a set of tasks on your to-do list for each of the key areas of your life is paramount. This process can dramatically affect the quality of your life.

Determining which area in your life is not getting enough attention is a great start in implementing your time management strategy. Each area of the 6 main areas, which are discussed below, creates a part of the “whole you.” If you are ignoring one area then you are ignoring an important part of yourself.

What Is Time Management Is about?

As mentioned, there are six areas in your life where you need to manage your use of time if you want to be successful. By managing your use of your limited time it will give your life balance while at the same time dramatically increasing your productivity. The 6 priority areas include, in no particular order, your physical wellness, intellectual, social, career, emotional and spiritual growth.

Most of All it is About Making Life More Enjoyable, as Well As MORE Productive.

  • The physical aspect involves having a healthy body, which includes eating well exercising and having less stress and fatigue in your life.
  • The intellectual aspect involves learning and growing intellectually, having control of your thoughts, having a positive focused mindset and utilizing other various intellectual focus growth activities such as meditation
  • The social aspect involves having time and enjoying personal and/or intimate relationships. It also includes time to give back to humanity.
  • The career aspect involves school and work and is likely that these parts will take a big chunk of your allotted awaken time
  • The emotional aspect involves appropriate feelings and desires and manifesting them. This process is ongoing throughout the course of your day and will come to your attention as actions or more importantly reactions rise to the surface.
  • The spiritual aspect involves your own personal quest for the meaning of your life and of humans existence in general

The Importance of a Balanced Time Management approach

From the moment you integrate time management skills, you will have opened several new and powerful options to improve your life. This can provide you with a broad spectrum of solutions to your personal productivity and growth. It also creates more doors for new and exciting opportunities to knock on.

The Purpose of Time Management

The purpose of time management is to utilize your time in a way that suits you best. The main goal is to increase your productivity, all the while giving you more time to do what you enjoy.

At no time is time management meant to or designed as another way to beat yourself up or to judge yourself. It’s simply supposed to be a gift, not a penalty. The process should be supportive, growth-oriented, support your overall quality of life and be a sensible and reasonable approach in solving problems big or small.

Get this 2 page “Principles of effective Time Management for Balance, Well-Being, and Success from McGraw Center at Princeton University HERE

The Need To Manage Distractions

As I mentioned above, our day-to-day list of distractions has grown dramatically over the last 20 years. Much of this is a result of the introduction and utilization of various forms of technology, especially “Social Media. ” As such, it so important to get on top of how you manage your time as soon as possible.

Some of this is going to require discipline to eliminate or manage utilization of things like social media, online entertainment from games to video distractions-okay porn, to even just sitting reading the news.

For me, many times I found myself sitting down to write something, say a blog post or article, and then come up against a mental block. Instead of working through the block, I found myself playing solitaire. The next thing I knew, 30+ minutes (or more) had gone by. The time was absolutely wasted time.

When I implemented time management, I kept my goals in plain sight. Even before that, I deleted any potential distractions that I could from my computer, such as Solitaire.

The Need for Focused Time

Time management is basically about being focused. More importantly, it’s about maintaining that focus until you complete the task on hand. For many of us, this means creating a new habit, one of Focus and Concentration.

Over and over you will hear stories about one of the big drawbacks today is that most people now have a very short attention span. Even worse is that it’s continuing to get shorter and shorter. This is a direct result of the increasing amount of information coming at us constantly. This in essence is overloading our neurology. There is a good article you can read here on this topic

I can not say enough about how your life can change for the better if you can master time management ASAP.

Time Management Is Not Just A Set Of Rules

Some people view time management merely as a set of rules. This translates into creating a schedule of appointments, progressive goal setting supported by thorough planning, creating “to-do” lists, and then prioritizing the goals.

These are the core basics of time management that should be understood in order to properly develop an efficient personal time management skillset. These basic skills can transform your life and they can be fine-tuned further to include the finer points of each skill. This can then give you that extra reserve you need in order to create the results you desire.

Most people overlook the fact that in reality there are more skills involved in time management than just the core basics. There are additional skills needed to be successful with time management. These skills include

  • Tracking how you spend your time
  • Setting Priorities
  • Decision-making
  • Implementing the use of a good planning tool
  • Scheduling Appropriately
  • Being able to Delegate
  • Manage the list of “time wasters” – Handheld Devices, Email, Visitors, Meetings
  • Focusing on the task at hand
  • Most important – Staying Healthy!! by exercising and eating properly etc.

In reality, personal time management covers 24 hours of your day and involves everything you do. No matter how big and no matter how small, every minute counts. This will help you to stop wasting time that could be spent creating amazing things in your life and even helping the lives of others. Each new skill or increased knowledge you obtain, each new advice/ feedback you consider, as well as every new skill you develop, no matter how big or small, should be added to the mix.

Now that you have all of this free time you can make more money doing other things. If you want some ideas, try this article of 15 alternative ways to make money HERE

The Need to Observe

In order to make effective change, it really helps to know where you’re at. Again increase your awareness. Begin to observe what takes you off task. How long can you be writing a document and then find yourself walking around the room? Can you stay focused and then find yourself playing solitaire or searching social media? What can you do to manage your phone so that you can stay focused on what you need to do?

Start becoming aware of what distracts you and even better what causes you to get distracted. All of these things are just merely skills that move unconsciously part of yourself. They can be undone. You can replace the skills with more productive ones. It will just take some practice. Begin with increasing your awareness.

Another time-waster for me was when I would be in the middle of writing a blog post and I would get mentally stuck. I didn’t know what to do next.

Instead of playing Solitaire, I would get up and walk around the room, go to the kitchen to make something to eat. As I became more aware of this I would stop myself. I would simply say to myself “stay focused!” I then would continue to stay at the computer and finish the post. This one little observation made me considerably more productive.

It’s the littlest distractions that add up to hours of wasted time if you don’t catch them in the bud.

The Need for Balance

Don’t get me wrong, time management is not about spending every waking moment at work. Quite the contrary it’s about enjoying life as much as possible.

Managing time is also about having fun, doing things and your loved ones, exercising, traveling, seeing the world, etc., etc.

it is so important to factor in a balanced lifestyle as part of the time management equation. Many people in the here the word time management now important is in start scheduling every waking moment. They become hypervigilant about side excursions or (perceived) distractions. This is the main aspect that many practitioners of personal time management fail to grasp.

Time management is about getting results, not about being busy. But it’s also about enjoying life. One of them is to review your goals whether it be immediate or long-term goals often.

Get 10 Strategies for Better Time Management from the University of Georgia HERE

A Great Way to Integrate Time Management

The best way to integrate a Time Management process is to keep a list that is always accessible to you. This list includes items like

  • Use your best judgement to always determine which of you identified task is necessary or not necessary in achieving your goals and which activities are helping you maintain a balanced life style.
  • Understand your natural body rhythms. We all have of us times of the day that are better suited for us to take action and times when we might even need a nap. These are own natural cycles. You need to be able to understand when to do the hard tasks when you will be in a time of peak performance. For some people it’s early in the morning. For some people could be the middle of the afternoon even in the evening. Only you will know. Adjust your schedule accordingly.
  • Learning to set boundaries: this is so so important for everyone and I’m sure you’ve heard this many times. It’s important that you take this on and utilize this device even in a bit means saying the word to family members or friends, let alone business associates.
  • Acknowledge yourself and your accomplishments in any manner that works for you to help you to reinforce the positive aspects of effective time management.
  • Try and get the cooperation from people around you who are actually benefiting from your efforts of time management.
  • Take action! All costs overcome procrastination. Adopt the strategy of “DO IT NOW!”.
  • Work at maintaining a constant positive attitude and set yourself up for success.
  • Support you success by setting realistic goals which by accomplishing these will help you to enforce your approach in achieving your goals.
  • Have a record or journal of all your activities. This will help you get things in their proper perspective.

Time Management is Another Powerful Tool You Now Know About That Can Help You to Have an Exceptional Life .

Like everything is up to you!!!

NOW Take (Massive) action!!

Transform your life and have everything you can / want, then share this skillset someone else!  

Personal time management is another steppingstone in the art and science of building a BETTER (AnDE incredible ) Life.
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Create a better Life: Change Your Point of View

“The question is not what you look at, but what you see.”

Henry David Thoreau 

Everything is About “Perspective”

If you want to create a better life for yourself, All you have to do is Change your Point of View. To do this you need to become more optimistic.

Imagine that you are driving down a highway, and cars are coming towards you in the opposite direction, you will see things in a certain way. At the same time, the driver coming towards you will have their own perspective.

Your perspective isn’t just the facts you cars coming towards each other it’s also how we interpret everything. That interpretation is based on your beliefs and life experiences something unique to you. how you see the world is based totally on your perspective and yours alone. Now there may be commonalities with other people, especially in the same society. There always are. Yet, you will still have your unique point of view.

The way we see things or how you experience the world is tempered by your life experiences, especially what happened to you when you were young. As a result, you will judge everything you see and do through the lenses of who you are or who you have become. This is mostly from your unique life experiences, but there is a growing science that we are becoming aware of that we can also inherit experiences from our forefathers.

How your Childhood Experiences Affect Your Perspective

Some people come out of their childhood only seeing the best in the world-space the stars. For others, a search for problems or issues or what’s wrong or what’s not working. As I wrote in other articles on, a big problem for all of us is that we get taught what to think, not how they think.

As a result, you may not understand that a lot of this is simply a choice. If how you see the world isn’t working this time to change how you see the world. Trust me, this is an awful lot easier than hoping the world’s going to change to fit your model.

To change your perspective just takes new habits. It requires a change in focus. It requires setting new goals and looking for anything that stops you from achieving them. Our perspective is everything and that’s all it is- our perspective!

The Power of “CHOICE”

Every day you are always filled with choices. Many people don’t realize that they even have a choice and just think the way things are is the way things are. In reality, even if you’re the worst pessimist in the world you don’t have to remain that way!

Unconsciously you may have opted to have a pessimist’s view and live a self-defeated life or you may decide to take the optimist’s route and take on a way less challenging and more fulfilling life. And you can change your mind and choose something different-to live life differently, from a different perspective

The Continuum of Pessimism versus Optimism

I’m sure you have a number of friends, acquaintances and/or relatives. Across the collection of our contacts, they will represent a wide range of perspectives across the pessimism/optimism spectrum. I’m sure you have both optimistic and pessimistic friends.

My questions:

  • Which one is more fun to be with?
  • Which ones can you be yourself around?
  • Which ones do you have to tiptoe around?
  • Which ones are more successful?
  • Which ones are living life to the max and joy in life\
  • Which ones can overcome hardships faster?
  • What ones let things go easier?

Where are you on this scale?

Where do you see yourself on this scale of pessimism or optimism currently?

Do you understand it’s a choice or at least it can be!. If you’re a pessimist, you don’t have to stay that way. Yes, I realize changing your perspective will take some work but won’t it be worth it? It’s just a condition responsible perspective and you can change your perspective.

Why not take the optimist point of view?

There are so many benefits for taking the optimistic point of view:

For example, optimism has been linked to:

  • better  health,
  • more happiness,
  • less depression
  • more positive moods
  • better morale
  • better performance in school, on the job
  • more friends
  • better relationships
  • less depression

Here’s a sad fact, In recent years, the mean age for the onset of these two afflictions has gone down from 30 to 15, (likely caused by the introduction and adaptation of technology or too much of it.) It is no longer a middle-aged housewife’s disorder but also a teenager’s disorder’ as well.

Continuing Optimist versus Pessimists

Here’s how optimists are in action and researches that back up why it really pays to be an optimist:

Optimists expect the best versus pessimists who base tend to believe bad events, which will last a long time and undermine everything they do, are their own fault.

Additionally, optimists tend to focus on and plan for the ‘problem’ at hand. They use ‘positive reinterpretation.’ In other words, they most likely reinterpret a negative experience in a way that helps them learn and grow. Such people are unfazed by bad situations, they simply perceive it as a challenge and buckle down and try harder.

They won’t say “things will never get better,” “If I failed once, it will happen again” and “If I experience misfortune in one part of my life, then it will happen in my whole life.”

Positive expectancies of optimists also predict better reactions during transitions to new environments, sudden tragedies and unlikely turn of events. If they fall, they will stand up. They see opportunities instead of obstacles. The truth is optimists are confronted with the same hard knocks of this world. What differs is the way they explain their misfortune—it’s the opposite way. They tend to believe defeat is just a temporary setback, that its causes are confined to this one case.

People respond positively to optimists

Optimists are proactive and less dependent on others for their happiness. They find no need to control or manipulate people. They usually draw people towards them. Their optimistic view of the world can be contagious and influence those they are with.

Optimism seems a socially desirable trait in all communities. Those who share optimism are generally accepted while those who spread gloom, panic and hysteria are treated unfavourably.

In life, these people often win elections; get voted most congenial and sought for advice.

When the going gets tough, optimists get tougher versus the pessimist to takes often blame somebody else for the problems

Optimists typically maintain higher levels of subjective well-being during times of stress than do people who are less optimistic. In contrast, pessimists are likely to react to stressful events by denying that they exist or by avoiding dealing with problems. Pessimists are more likely to quit trying when difficulties arise.

They persevere. They just don’t give up easily, they are also known for their patience. Inching their way a step closer to that goal or elusive dream.

Again if you need to hear this Optimists are healthier and live longer. Medical research has justified that simple pleasures and a positive outlook can cause a measurable increase in the body’s ability to fight disease.

Here’s another great reason for becoming more optimistic: Optimists age well (better). They are much freer than most people from the usual physical ills of middle age and beyond. They get to outlive those prone to negative thoughts. You see, all of the negative thoughts hurt everyone, but mostly the person thinking them.

So why not be an optimist today? And think positively towards a more fulfilled life.

Why not look forward to success in all your endeavours? Why not be or become more resilient?

Like everybody else you are bound to hit lows sometimes but don’t just stay there. Carry yourself out of the mud and improve your chances of getting back on the right track. And why not inspire others to remove their dark-coloured glasses and see life on the bright side?

A simple trick on starting the process of changing this is when you catch yourself having a negative thought say to yourself “Cancel, Cancel,).

Say this simple phrase a couple of times until the sensation of feeling goes away and you’ll slowly rewire your response.\

Closing Thoughts

Here are a couple of good books on learning to become an optimist: (if you push on the link, it will take you to the book on Amazon)

Learned Optimism: How to Change Your Mind and Your Life

Relentless Optimism: How a Commitment to Positive Thinking Changes Everything (Sports for the Soul) Paperback – July 26, 2017

Remember to always focus only on what you want to create.

At any point in the slide back again, just use “Cancel, Cancel” or “Cancel, Clear” and focus on what you want.

Good luck my friend you can do it!
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How your “Personal Programming” can keep you stuck – and How to start to change today!

These days, pretty well everyone has a computer.

In fact, it is likely that you’re reading this on one (or on your mini-computer – your phone or tablet.)

If you are using a computer, you probably understand the basics of how computers work.

There is a central processor or “brain” of the computer and then there are various software programs that facilitate the computer being able to do specific functions. It is likely that you conscious actions as to which programs to install and which ones to avoid.

If you want your computer to do something, you have to make sure that there is appropriate software installed on it. For example, if you want it to perform accounting functions, and you don’t have any accounting software on your computer, it’s not likely going to be much help.

If you own a computer, I’m sure that you are in the habit of looking for good, reputable software in order to keep your computer safe.

At the same time, you are likely very cautious of the “download this” opportunities to add unknown software to your computer. 

To keep your computer safe virtually everyone has some form of anti-virus and/or anti-malware software that is constantly looking for unknown software that can undermine how your computer works. In fact, some of the software is capable of hijacking your computer.

For me, I have always found computers to be a very simple and effective metaphor for us humans

You see, like computers, we have a basic operating system run by our brain. Then as we evolved we start adding software which comes in the form of “beliefs”.

We install these a lot when we’re young. For the most part, they are installed randomly with little conscious thought as to their effectiveness. Yes, what I’m saying is that we humans take more care with a $500 computer than we do with this priceless computer that runs between our ears.

Much of the software that gets installed comes from our family, our surroundings, our society and sadly these days all too often from unknown sources on the Internet.

When asking a question, have you ever challenged your beliefs? Have you ever asked yourself why do I believe this to be true? Or does this belief support me in getting everything that I want in my life?

You see, in our collective unconsciousness, very few people challenge their belief systems. We have a tendency to accept the beliefs that we were raised upon in spite of the fact that our lives are not giving us what we want.

People who are born into wealthy families simply have different beliefs, especially about things like abundance, than people who were born into middle class or poorer families.

Many people start with these amazing dreams of what they want to create in their life and yet never create them. The major cause of this is simply they don’t have the belief systems in place to support wealth, abundance etc.

When we are children we are not capable of discerning the information that comes to us as to whether it’s viable or valid. If the customer’s parents we just accept it. The unfortunate thing is many times children make decisions about the world from a child’s perspective.

I remember a story I read.

There was a woman in her 40s who kept finding herself getting sick and ending up in the hospital.

After working with a counsellor for a while she finally discovered that when she was only a child, about four years old, she unconsciously made a decision that if she got sick, she would get attention from her mother – something she longed for.

That simple belief, made as a child stayed in her mind and unknowingly ran her life.

Starting the process to get what you really want – (and deserve)

You need to wake up and become aware

To make real changes, you have to start thinking about what you believe. Do your beliefs support success or failure? Do they support you taking massive action, or avoiding taking it at all cost? Do they support you being wealthy, or poor? etc. IF you want to know the answer to these questions, simply look at the results you have created in your life, as this is an indication of your current beliefs.

For most people, our beliefs are unconscious, or we are simply unaware of what we believe. We are so used to our beliefs that we take them for granted. Few people challenge or even think about their beliefs.

Simply if you want to know the answer to these questions, just look around – the results you have are a clear indication of your beliefs

Some beliefs to think about:

  • What you believe about wealth?
  • What you believe about your capability of being successful?
  • What you believe about relationships?
  • What you believe about the education system?
  • What you believe about money? Are you allowed to have some? Are you allowed to have a lot?
  • What was your family imprint around money?

The route to Meaningful and Lasting Change

Meaningful change starts with 2 things: Clear goals – What do I want! and honest awareness as to where you are at – what do I believe? that got me here.

My friend, get this process moving by starting by getting very clear about what you what. Dream big, and write it down. give your subconscious mind a clear picture about what you really want.

Then start being a lot more conscious of what you believe and start asking yourself why do I believe this to be true? Where did I get this belief? Does this belief support me to get what I want in my life?”

Next, start reading about the belief systems of successful people have and then ask yourself do I have a belief that it’s counter to this? read biographies etc.

A good place to start is Robert T. Kiyosaki’s book, Rich Dad, Poor Dad where he shares the different beliefs of rich and poor people.

Be Safe & lets make a different world together!

Paul @ ViralGrey

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When we are young many most of us have these amazing dreams, and yet few people manifest the dreams they had when they were young.

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